About
A dominant, writing to you — not about you.
Why a man in the dominant’s chair is the right person to tell you how submission works, and how it stays safe.
I’m Sir Linus. For years I’ve written Dominant Guide for dominants — how to lead well, how to hold power without abusing it, how to be worth submitting to. Over and over, submissive readers wrote in. They said the writing helped them understand their own dynamic better than anything written to them ever had. And they asked the same question: is there a version of this for us?
There wasn’t. The market is full of submissives explaining submission to other submissives — which is lovely, and real, and not what those readers were missing. What was missing was the other side of the table: a dominant telling you, without performance and without flattery, what’s actually happening when you submit, what I’m responsible for, and how you protect yourself.
What you can expect here
- The dominant’s view, given to you — for your safety and understanding, never to instruct you on how to please.
- You are the protagonist. Every essay is written to you, about your experience, not about how to be useful to someone like me.
- Safety first, always. If anything here ever reads as “just trust him,” I’ve failed. Authority is something I owe you, not something I’m owed.
- I read every email. That’s not a slogan; it’s how this site started. Write to me and I’ll answer.
Sir Linus is a pen name. The reasons are the obvious ones, and they’re the same reasons many of you read here quietly. Your privacy is safe with me because mine has to be too.